RELATIONSHIP COACH FOR WOMEN • ONLINE • WORLDWIDE
Tired of being the one who takes responsibility for what’s not working?
What if I told you there is a proven way to re-ignite love, connection and appreciation.
MANY WOMEN FEEL TRAPPED IN AN INVISIBLE CAGE
All the courses, books and therapy isn’t that helpful if you haven’t left your invisible cage
I know, because this was me. I tried, cajoled, managed, carried for 18 years, never feeling my relationships were where I knew they could be.
I could see our patterns and even understood them, but in charged moments, I felt powerless to change the outcome.
In the end I was exhausted.
My nervous system was running what it was conditioned to run. Like a magnet, I was pulled back again and again until I became aware of a deeper truth.
The process I use doesn't teach you how to manage your relationships better. It gives you a method for freeing yourself from the system that created those situations in the first place.
In the very first session, you'll get to see that system and discover the keys to inner freedom.
Imagine experiencing the end of:
- Relationship anxiety that activates even when you know better
- Communication that breaks down the moment emotions run high
- Relationship boundaries that you can't hold in real moments
- Emotional patterns that repeat across different partners
- Over-giving and over-carrying at the expense of your wellbeing
A new relational framework that fosters 'inner' standing
Sessions via Zoom or in person on the Sunshine Coast. All timezones welcome.
- We'll map your emotions and identify the magnetic structures keeping you stuck
- We'll practice a method for bringing you back to inner standing, when you'd normally melt into powerlessness
- We'll establish key actions that start diffusing the magnetic power of habitual patterns that disrupt the love and connection you feel in your relationships
- Session recording to keep
- 8 weeks working closely with Lisa (zoom sessions, audio chats, emails)
- Voice message access anytime, so you can shift what's happening in situ
- Supported practices that build capacity in your new relational system
- Resources and check-ins throughout
- All session recordings to keep
"I understood my emotional patterns in relationships completely. I just couldn't stop them."
Sarah, 39
"I knew about relationship anxiety. I still walked straight into it every single time."
Libby, 51
"I tried every kind of relationship coaching. The same patterns kept running."
Danni, 45
What you'll experience when you no longer lose yourself in your relationships
- The ability to stay strong and empowered within yourself - even when those around you are escalating or pulling you towards reaction
- Ability to use your voice effectively, with clarity rather than from reactivity, fear or a need to filter for the sake of others
- A felt sense of being heard and seen - a genuine movement away from self-abandonment
- Heightened awareness of what you feel, what you need and what is not yours to carry
- Deepening self-trust that comes from an inner knowing, not from the responses of others
- A capacity to relate from love (rather than neediness) without losing yourself in the process
Your relationship patterns don't need their cooperation to change
Your partner doesn't have to be the room. You don't need anyone's permission to begin.
When one person genuinely restructures the relational operating system at source, the entire relational structure has no choice but to shift. Communication starts being effective because you stopped speaking from reaction and start speaking from inner standing.
There was a period in my life where I went through a betrayal so significant it shattered everything I had built my world around. My insights and knowledge were no use at all in the feeling experience of that unfolding trauma!
I was confronted when I saw my relationship was being held together by an invisible structure that also kept me small, needy, reactive and powerless. I was relating in a way that actually kept me separate from what I truly longed for: deep love, adoration and care!
Out of the embers of that experience, I reclaimed a felt sense of my own inner standing and a knowing there was a better way to be in relationship: one where love and harmony can thrive and connection and closeness deepen over time.
What I noticed from working with intelligent, self-aware women is that understanding the pattern was never the problem.
Most approaches work at the level of insight without touching the relational operating system underneath. Think of it as if it was a language you learnt to speak as a child and it became your mother tongue: it’s just the way you speak relationship. It is so fundamental it’s often not questioned. We may learn more about our relationships and how to manage them, but the actual language we are ‘speaking’ remains the same. It may feel like an invisible cage you can’t seem to escape no matter how hard you try.
Over twenty years of working with women navigating this territory, I developed a process for implementing a new relational operating system that doesn’t just dissolve the bars on that cage, it creates a whole new relational reality altogether. This softer, gentler, more natural way I’ve called the Heartself Method.
I’m a qualified educator, meditation teacher and relationship coach working with women worldwide via Zoom from Queensland, Australia. The Heartself Method, arising from my own personal experiences also draws on Jungian psychology, Gestalt therapy, somatic understanding, meditation and ancient wisdom practices, not as a collection of techniques but as a way of enlivening relationships. As a single mother of four I have lived every dimension of this new relational operating system.
About Lisa Jayne · Mentor for Women
I built this methodology because I needed it myself.
Relationship coaching for the woman who is ready
to actually stop.
One session maps your emotional patterns and gives you the practice. Five sessions resolve relationship anxiety, communication patterns and relationship boundaries at source — for good.
How can you guide your daughter through emotions you were never taught to understand yourself?
Most mothers arrive here having done everything right — and still overreacting, overgiving, or going quiet in the moments that matter most. Somewhere underneath the trying is a quiet ache: I don't want to pass this on to her.
Through her 5 Keys method, Lisa Jayne shows you how to stay present with your daughter without losing yourself — so she learns, simply by watching you, what it means to live from the heart.
Because what you pass forward isn't a method. It's everything she carries into her relationships for the rest of her life.
“A wisely crafted, heart-centred pathway to healing.” – Peter Doyle, Registered Psychologist