Relational Architecture
LISA JAYNE - SUNSHINE COAST & ONLINE
For the woman who understands the patterns and can’t stop repeating them.
Why does the pattern keep returning?
You’ve been renovating, not restructuring.
You've done the work and understand yourself, but still the same dynamics surface. That familiar frustration each time you get activated is proof nothing has fundamentally shifted.
You probably know why you react like you do, but that knowledge alone doesn’t change the architecture containing it.
Imagine if you could map the structure beneath the pattern and build something genuinely different so you could feel the warmth of a relationship that holds together, even if life falls apart.
THE FUNDAMENTAL SHIFT
Most approaches try to change
the pattern
from within the pattern.
Conflict resolution, communication scripts and attachment work are all valuable — however, they’re all limited by the same constraint. They attempt to produce new results from inside the same underlying structure.
Instead of learning new responses, you build the capacity for a fundamentally different way of showing up - one that feels coherent, integrated and genuinely yours.
Then something shifts that no amount of effort could produce - the relationship starts to reorganise itself.
"You can’t build new architecture from within the old one"
There is a right entry point
for where you are
WAYS TO WORK TOGETHER
Every pathway below leads to the same place:
a relational architecture that holds, even under pressure.
START HERE - FREE
Your Relational
Architecture Diagnostic
A free diagnostic that maps your relational structure across three domains — where you're holding, where you're under strain, and what that pattern is actually telling you.
LIVE MASTERCLASS — $47
Relational
Architecture Intensive
A live working session, limited to 30, where we map relational patterns in real time. You leave with a structural map and a precise understanding of where to build. For individuals and couples.
SIGNATURE PROGRAM
The Relational
Architect
An 8-week immersion into a new relational architecture. Not a course. A structural transformation - building the specific capacities that produce coherence, presence, and genuine creative potential in your relationships. This program is available online in a group cohort, or individually
Relational Architecture
is built across three domains.
THE THREE DOMAINS
Strength in one cannot compensate for instability in another. Each domain is a structural capacity, not a personality trait or a communication style. Each domain is something that can be built.
COMMITMENT TO PROCESS · HOLDING TENSION · FUNCTIONAL PRESENCE
01
Integrity
The capacity to stay aligned to what is true for you even when emotional tension is present. Speaking from coherence rather than from protection. What you feel is what you say, unfiltered. There’s no masking and no performance.
Stability
02
INTEGRITY IN DIFFERENTIATION · DEPENDABILITY
The capacity to remain emotionally available when the charge is high — without fixing, withdrawing, blaming, or escalating. Presence under ease is easy. This domain measures something harder.
Authorship
SELF TRUST · EMERGENCE · CONSCIOUS CHOICE
03
The capacity to consciously create the relationship you want, rather than endlessly managing what already exists. Instead of repairing what’s not working, you are authoring something new.
WHAT PEOPLE SAY
"I am blown away by the power of Lisa's work. I feel like I've returned to my true self."
STACEY M.
"I was immediately impressed by Lisa's ability to explore deep emotional issues in a safe and meaningful way. I now approach life very differently — which is a refreshing, freeing place to be."
ANDREW G.
"Lisa told me that things will change from tomorrow - I didn't believe this could be true, but it was. The supported journey to change my approach has been rewarding beyond my imagination. I am ME.
If you struggle with your relationships and need guidance to change your path, I recommended Lisa Jayne to support you in your self discovery and self worth journey.”
JACINTA L.
"Working with Lisa has opened my world up into a whole new light, such an amazing journey. my stress and overthinking patterns have eased and life is beautiful!”
BEN F.
"Lisa created tools for me to navigate difficult relationships — how to take responsibility for my own patterns, stand up for myself, and truly embrace self love. Your guidance changed my life."
MARY M.
"Lisa is the absolute best. I approached her for guidance on certain aspects of my life but she has helped me with so much more than what I originally thought possible. Her methods showed results from day one and are easy to understand and follow. She offers so much more than a lot of specialists I have seen and is always there when you need her, even outside of appointments. If you are looking for guidance, please give Lisa a call. She will change your life as she has mine!"
JOHN S.
WHAT TO EXPECT
Working with me
looks like this.
We map where you are
01
A 90-minute initial consultation to identify your relational patterns, map your architecture, and clarify exactly where to begin. You'll leave with something concrete — not a list of things to work on, but a structural picture that makes everything clearer…and something to put into practice straight away.
Your relational architecture stabilises
02
Your relationships start reorganising around your new structure naturally. Not because you've learned to communicate better — but because the structure beneath the communication has changed. This is the difference between managing a pattern and building something new.
We integrate a new relational operating system + strengthen the specific capacities that close the biggest ‘gaps’ in your relationship
03
Ongoing sessions are tailored to your specific architecture - this is not a generic program. This is precise work, using my methodology, to transform the capacities under strain in your specific relational system. It includes real-time support between sessions, with practices you can apply immediately.
Everything is recorded
04
Every session is recorded so you can revisit insights and integrate them in your own time. This work compounds. The more you return to it, the more deeply it lands.
What you might
be wondering.
COMMON QUESTIONS
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Most approaches work within the existing relational structure — refining communication, processing emotions, understanding patterns. Relational Architecture works on the structure itself. We don't just identify what's happening. We map why it keeps happening — at a structural level — and build the specific capacities that construct a new architecture, which naturally produces different results. You move from managing consequences to building something genuinely new.
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Yes. Relational Architecture describes how you are structurally organised to connect — with anyone. The patterns you carry into intimate relationships are the same ones showing up at work, with family, and in how you relate to yourself. This work is for anyone who wants to understand and shift those patterns at a structural level.
If you are single now, what better time to make sure you won’t repeat the patterns of the past, in your future? -
One person changing their architecture changes the relational dynamic. You cannot change another person's structure — but when yours shifts, the system around you reorganises in response. Many people begin this work alone and find that the relationship transforms as a natural consequence.
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Most people notice something in the first session — not because the architecture has fully changed, but because seeing the structure clearly produces an immediate shift in how you perceive things. Structural change takes longer. The full program is eight weeks and is designed to install new capacity — not just the insight — across all three domains. -
Yes. If after applying my guidance over a three-week period you're not satisfied, I will refund your investment. This work requires commitment — but it also delivers results. I stand behind that completely.
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Individual sessions are available in my private practice in Eumundi on the Sunshine Coast, or online via Zoom — anywhere in the world. All sessions are recorded so you can return to them at any time.